Wife question
Im considering divorce because I don’t feel like I’m getting enough back & my expectations aren’t being met. Almost 10yrs of marriage (our whole 20s) & 2kids. A kiss good morning before he goes to work & a kiss when he arrives. I work from home a full time job while taking care of the girls. He comes home to a nice meal, pretty clean house, clothes washed. A lot of time he sits on the phone to play games or his computer to play games. He’ll lay down with me when he wants to have sex & then turns around to play video games or scroll on his phone. We haven’t had a date night in MONTHSSSSSSSS. I did have a convo & tell him my feelings about having one foot out the door & very thin ice. He gets upset because I always deny him for sex, I can’t do it if the emotional connection is NOT there. I’ve gotten 2 pair of flowers in the last 6mo & a book for Mother’s Day. I’m not expecting diamonds but make me feel special once in a while. Am I wrong for wanting divorce.
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You’re not wrong for wanting divorce, especially since it feels like you’re doing everything alone. It’s good that you’ve had a conversation about this with him. I will say that marriage is super hard and there are different seasons in life the good the bad and the ugly i’m not excusing him for his behavior. I think that maybe getting some marriage counseling would help the situation. Divorce isn’t always the answer when things get tough but I do understand the feeling of loneliness that you feel and I’m so sorry about that if he’s willing to counseling is always a good option and if he’s willing to work it out and get better he should if that is not something that he’s willing to do then that’s a different story. praying that this season gets better for you♥️
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