Me time

Idk why guys get complacent once they settle. Im going through the same thing. If you ever want to chat you can hit me up! 💜

right I had my baby but I lost most of the weight and I don’t consider my self ugly but it hurts seeing him complementing others like his mom or sister but me I honestly feel like living him but it’s not the best decision he is a good father and a good provider

Don’t wait till he asks you what you want to do you tell him! If your EBF buy a pump so you can have some hours to yourself. My babies 8 months and I’m currently at the gym she can go longer without a feed now. You truly have to make that time for yourself no one else will do it for you. Dinner can wait or you should start batch cooking food do big portions so that the food lasts a few days. You need to start putting yourself first 🤍

Agree with Cerys

God forbid we waited to be offered me time.

It goes like this

"Babe im doing this at x time." You then go and do it... this is how resentment breeds

The no sex no compliments thing is a conversation firstly

Make plans. See friends. Find events to go to. Find a hobby/group/club you wanna learn or attend or go to, something just for yourself. My hubby has friends, has hobbies. I go see friends, have my own hobbies. We have to make and plan that time for ourselves because even if they offer we are the ones that have to make it happen. I have salsa dancing twice a week, Tuesdays and Fridays, and we take turns seeing friends Sat night, and one Sat night a month is date night. I’ll start cooking at 3 on a Friday it’s all ready by 5, and at 5 I clock out and jump in the shower ready to go out at 7 and I’m out till 12,1am salsa dancing.

my Baby is 14 months old and I don’t pump because I don’t have much milk I always breastfeed so can’t be gone for too long or with out the baby

we move to a new city so I don’t have any friends and the money is short I don’t work 

At 14 months old they are eating meals

You will be surprised how long they can go... when the breasts arent in the room with them

Baby steps :)

he took the baby to his mom the other day so I could clean the house in peace because if the baby is napping or sleeping gets up with the minimum noise it’s so frustrating

he is eating very good 3 meals pluse snacks n still getting milk at least 3 times during the day n 2 or 4 at night n he is not chubby lol

They get used to it tbh... the more you do it.

My kid can sleep thru a war now tbh because we never created unrealistic environments for them to nap.

It isnt always gonna be silent

Each to their own tho.

😊 hope you get your me time

thank you 🙏

I don’t work either OP I’ve been a sahm the past 6yrs. My salsa dancing is free, they offer free lessons for bachata and salsa. Find a group or class you can do for free or very cheap. As for nails and hair I do that all at home DIY I do my own nails I cut my own hair I just need the supplies to do them, for one set of nails you could buy the kit enough to last you 2yrs worth of nails, they’ll always be done because I do them myself. Because you’re in a new city I’d be putting myself out there and finding new ways to get into the new community, maybe church, or a hobby or class for your me time. That way you can make friends as well.