Wwyd if your mom talks shit about her kids to your extended fam

i had this issue, a lot of my extended family doesn’t talk to me because of how much gossip about me and my little brother was spread around when we were younger. im not worried about it though because what kind of people would genuinely listen to gossip about children and shun them as they get older? not the kind of people i wanna have in my life thats for sure.

that sucks I can relate I'm the black sheep or scapegoat. My aunt literally yelled at me in front of everyone and especially in front of my son. I fucking hate my family all of them suck so bad

My mom's probably pitying me in front of everyone behind my back and feeding even my brother (her son!) bullshit about me when in fact she reveals nothing about her own struggles

Would you go to family function even if you like the host? (Your uncle who never harmed you)

Siri please play “cut her off” by k camp cuz it ain’t nothing to cut that bitch off lol bt seriously I’ve always felt like the black sheep of my family because all the shit my parents talk abt to my aunts. And jus like u op, my aunts and uncles and extended relatives have painted this picture of me based on what my parents tell them abt it. It’s not even fair cuz a lot of it ain’t true. My parents are narcissists and very controlling. I was very unlike my siblings cuz I refused to get gaslight or follow their controlling ways so they say I’m “difficult” cuz I challenged them and I’m not threatened by them or fear life without their help or guidance. I cut them off, and it was the best thing I ever did. I love the family I come from bt the family I created is my priority and they don’t deserve any of this. I gotta put myself even if it means loving ppl from a distance

🤣🤣 this is the best kind of validation xoxoox