Friend cheating…
What would you have done? So last weekend me and my friend had a moms night that turned into something else. The whole night she was texting some dude and no really interacting with me and then he eventually showed up and the whole night they were making out and everything. I was trying to get us a uber home and she says this guy can take us and I kept telling her I don’t mind paying for the uber but she insisted. On the way home I was like your coming back to my place right and she goes “no he will f*** me and you won’t so don’t ask again” so I took that as that… I got home and about at 5 am I get these bangs on my door like it was the cops and it was her husband. We went back and forth for a while and I eventually just told him where she was because I’m freaking tired already and I wasn’t gonna keep lying to have him keep prying it out. This girl now hates me and I get it but she’s blaming me. She’s telling me I wasn’t a girls girl and that nobody else would have ever done this to her but I’m just like what should I have done then?? What could I have told her husband that wouldn’t have worried him more because everything else sounded like she was kidnapped or I left her at the club…. What would you have done? Was I wrong?
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How’s she blaming you she’s the one that has getting dicked down 😭😭😭 sorry not sorry she’s nasty asf I hate infidelity and just shows that she’s a disloyal human I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like that
She’s a bad friend and a terrible person. You did the right thing.
Did she want you to lie to the cops and get yourself in trouble? Absolutely not
“Not by my hand but in my lap” type of situation also agree w Haley^ terrible person
She shouldn't have put you in that position and if the tables were turned and it was him cheating and your husband lied to cover it she'd be pissed and say he should have told her. You did the right thing.
Being a girls girl is supporting and lifting up other girls and not letting g guys get away with cheating. It is not creating a double standard and expecting others to cover your shitty behaviour. She doesn't sound like a good friend or someone you'd want to trust or rely on.
You did the right thing.
my exact thoughts I’m not sure what she was expecting to me to do in this
yes that’s how I feel and now I’m blamed for possible divorce but it’s like how else do I handle someone banging on my door looking for you? If I said you just left without me that’s even worse.. idk but thank you all for making me know It’s okay I told him I’ve felt bad but also cheating is never okay in my book friends or not.
She can try and blame you all she wants the true blame is on her alone. No one forced her to cheat. Play stupid games win stupid prizes, it's her turn to deal with the consequences of the situation she created. Don't beat yourself up it takes a strong person to stand up for what is right even when it's going against a friend x
Honestly cut her off she needs to deal with the consequences of her actions
I would've left as soon as the guy showed up. And then the way she spoke to you and you just kinda said ok and went home? Wild. I also would not have told her husband shit and would've told him to leave my property cause that's not my business. She went home after me and that's all I know.
She's not a friend or even a decent person from what it sounds like. Walk away
She's a POS and you did nothing wrong, the second he showed up at my door I would've said something, no lying cause who tf does that do a person but then for her to go and blame you, she cheated, you didn't force her, she chose to
yeah apart of me is realizing I could have just kicked him off my property I think I was also just thinking of other times we’ve gone out. She will take her ring off and talk to guys and always let them touch her and it just was getting to a point I felt wether I said something or not he was gonna find out sooner or later since she wasn’t going back to him but then I guess in a way it wasn’t my place. But yeah I think the only reason I went with her was to make sure she actually ended up back in our area cause we live 30 min from where we were. Thank you for your input I appreciate it 🤍
How can you be blamed for a possible divorce? She is the one who cheated, not you! If they divorce, she is at fault and no one else
It's HER fault for cheating on her husband! She is a horrible wife, friend, and person in general. I would just block her and never speak to her again. 🤷🏻♀️
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