Sex

Soooooo I have a 10 month old and a 3 year old. I personally am not one of those moms that ever had a surge in their sex drive during or after pregnancy. However, I am trying to find that groove whenever I’m in the mood. While we do end up having sex and both climaxing, I feel like it’s teenage sex all over again but the awkward part of it 🤣 because I also am not in the mood to even kiss him, I just let him touch me to turn me on. Maybe even massages sometimes? But kissing hasn’t been an option because for whatever reason I don’t want to. I am attracted to my husband for sure but kissing is just not in my book yet and I’m working on it. Anyone else in this boat or similar? What I’m trying to ask is how to even spice it up a little because I’m internally laughing at the fact it’s just touch and sometimes it’s just him playing with me and we’re both in silence 🤣 I eventually get to making noise once I start getting turned on.

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I prefer touch for foreplay, but that's just me. Sometimes, we'll kiss to start things off, but not for very long.

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yh we won’t kiss for long… yh if it’s missionary we might kiss a little which is nice. in terms of spicing it up…. icl gotta be creative. try new positions, try new rooms, furniture 😂 start backing out some different toys

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