Should I invite BD to my babyshower
Help mamas , I just want opinions and thoughts .
My BD and his family has been mia throughout the whole pregnancy I’m 30 weeks pregnant now. I’m just debating to myself if I should invite him and his family to the Babyshower or just not .
My first thought was just to invite them so nobody won’t say I didn’t invite them and if they don’t come that’s on them . At least I had made an attempt to do so .
If I don’t invite him I don’t want it to be used against me if one day he decides to take me to court
I also haven’t seen this man in person since April and he hasn’t made any attempts to go to any doctor appointments
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You don’t owe them an invite just so they don’t “complain” that you didn’t invite them, they didn’t bother with your pregnancy so why bother even inviting them to a baby shower that is meant to celebrate you and your baby with loved ones around?
Court-wise, judges look at actions not invitations to social events. Him not showing up for appointments or being involved carries more weight than you not inviting him to a party.
Thank you , I needed to hear this 🫶🏼
It’s your special day to celebrate your beautiful baby on the way, which he hasnt been doing with you so far so if he wanted to celebrate he can go have his own baby shower lol. Youve been the one going through the hard parts alone and he can’t just pop in when it’s fun so I wouldn’t give him that option. Enjoy and celebrate your pregnancy the way you want to girl, it’s not your job to keep him involved xx
, thank you so much 🫶🏼 and lol my mom said the same thing if he wanted to throw a Babyshower he would do it on his own lol
I’m with my baby dad and his family r so involved but I ain’t having no men ain my baby’s shower😂his mum and step mum r coming but a baby shower is for you and your girls/family women
Also he can’t use u not inviting him to a baby shower in court that’s the most pointless case ever! You invite who YOU want. Who is close to you and has been involved
Thank you 🫶🏼, I really appreciate 🫶🏼
This is supposed to be a stress free day for you and your baby if he and his family are going to bring you stress don’t do it especially if any of them have been supportive during your pregnancy
thank you so much for this I really appreciate that , and it’s true they haven’t been active in the pregnancy 🫶🏼
Do not invite him. He hasn’t tried to see you since April. That’s enough to show the courts. Don’t invite him to get your hopes up. It’s not worth the energy
thank you and I won’t
If they’ve been MIA and you’ve extended invitations to go to doctors visits then don’t invite them. They haven’t been trying and this is the consequences of them not wanting to be involved
thank you so much I really appreciate your opinion 🫶🏼
Girl, I think the judge would look at him as if he stupid if he used that against you in court. That would be insane. He does not need to be there
, thank you so much I really needed to hear that 🫶🏼
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