Boy moms

Are you worried about your son falling down the red pill pipeline?

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I'm hoping it will have died out by the time mine is on the internet.

But - *trigger warning: SA* - Parents need to know that this is a real issue and it is incredibly dangerous, I work in court and have seen multiple young men charged with vile sexual/ violent crimes against girls and they were all chronically online on these incel / Andrew Tate forums. The things they have posted online about girls / women turned my stomach. One (awaiting trial for multiple rapes of a much younger girl) posted on a red pill forum saying if he gets a prison sentence his only regret would be that he 'didn't rape more'. Another in his early twenties groomed a school girl via online gaming and then raped her in a park and posted the video of it to a forum within an hour of the assault. She was in her uniform and that's how she was identified when the video was flagged.

So mums of boys plzzzzz take this seriously and teach your boys to love and respect women, and not just the ones they fancy!

My heart always goes out to boy moms. Having to fight so much outside pressure trying to teach young boys all these terrible things must be so hard!

Yes. It's possible, even if all the men in his life are not like that at all. I'm hoping if we keep an open dialogue and I show him a different way, it will help.

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Is anyone else's 4 month old randomly screeching now? I'm not sure what to do and she's been doing this for the past two days. She's usually a quiet happy baby so im not sure why she's doing this now. Aby suggestions?

Breastfeeding

Does it ever feel better? The actual feeding part of it is going really well and baby boy is growing so well. I’m struggling with how my boobs feel day to day - it’s really getting me down most days. The let downs make me feel awful and sounds silly but, I am also really missing not wearing a bra! 9 weeks postpartum and still getting fairly engorged, even with comfort pumping.

Any advice or just shared stories would help. I’m so torn between carrying on because I enjoy the feeding side of it or switching to formula.

Help! First time mum -

I have a 4 month old and now all of a sudden when he’s been asleep for 1hr30/2hrs he will wake up screaming (high pitched) I’ve tried winding him sometimes that helps, I’ve tried bicycle legs & bringing his knees up but that doesn’t seem to help but he brings his knees up himself sometimes but nothing happens. I’ve noticed since the 4 month mark he has started to struggle passing wind downwards! Any tips?

Big nursing bras!

I’m looking for recommendations for good nursing bras for bigger breasted ladies!

I’m currently in a 38H which seems to be the biggest size done at M&S (UK based mama here) and it’s snug and not as supportive as I’d like. When I look online, they mainly seem to be sized S, M, L, XL etc rather than bra sizes.

Any recommendations please?

Strange question

Hello. I would identify myself as asexual but yes i am married and i have a child. But now that ive had my baby. I think its solidified that im done having sex. I feel bad as my partner keeps asking me but i just dont want to. Any advice on what i can do? Any other asexual moms out there? I guess this could be confusing but im not huge on being bound by a label. I have just always felt it represented me best since highschool.