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My Husband feels like a second child sometimes

I love my husband a lot but sometimes he's feels more like a child i have to clean up after and ensure he properly care for himself. I will have the kitchen spotless and in less than a night, its covered in garbage and dishes that I end up having to clean so I can use the kitchen to feed myself and our daughter. He leave laundry everywhere, diapers on the floor for me to pick up later if he changes our daughters diaper, I have to tell him to shower and fold his laundry. He works a full time job well im a SAHM but picking up after yourself when you're home is just a basic responsibility. I tell him time and time again that im not his mom or maid and he gets better for a bit then reverts back to this bs. Im so tired and drained and I do t really get breaks. I feel like a married single mom a lot of the time. I dont want to leave him cause he is amazing in so many ways but the not cleaning after himself is so frustrating and puts more on top of me.