My 21 month old (22 at the end of the month) will not keep still. Constantly moving and changing positions, swatting me away, hitting me, starting to throw stuff (pacifier, blanket, towel), won't settle. The amount of bruises i have on my legs and arms because of the hitting and kicking is getting ridiculous. Is this normal? I'm a single mom and we watch maybe an hour of TV a week. I have no idea where she is learning this stuff. Any suggestions how to correct this behavior.
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My son is at that same stage right now 😭 he only hits me but I can tell he is just frustrated because he can’t communicate what he wants or we don’t know what he’s saying. He’s been throwing EVERYTHING as well. My mother in law says it’s the age and I’m trying to be patient but its been difficult 🥲

If she is hitting and kicking restrain her so that she can’t do those things.
You can also tell her no and walk away.
Try teaching a bit of sign language. It’s helped both of my kids to be able to communicate with me.

We had that issue for a while, discipline helped a lot and immediately stopping the behavior and correcting it as needed. It is normal behavior for toddlers because they are just trying to figure out their emotions and what your reaction to their behavior will be. It’s different for everyone but the behaviors and testing boundaries is all normal for toddlers trying to figure things out