Teething baby doesn’t want breast, but wants solids

She hasn’t had a breast feed in 6-7 hours now, but only lunch and a small snack while we were out. But that was still 4 hours ago now.

I’ve tried 4 times offering my breast but she cries and pulls off instantly. But then she’s trying to steal my other child’s dinner? As if she’s hungry

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Have you tried doing a bottle??

Also rice cereal is great for filling them up. When my son is teething I usually give some with breakfast and dinner to make sure he’s getting enough as he isn’t super interested in milk or solids

I don’t have anything to give her in a bottle, no spare milk.

She hasn’t had bottles since June

If you have a manual pump I would pump just enough for a bottle and see if she’ll take it. With her mouth hurting she may just need a different texture if that makes sense. If she does like the bottle you may also put a little rice cereal in it to ensure she gets full

My son likes to chew on the nipple of his bottles when he’s teething lol I’m assuming bc of the soft silicone it provides a nice little gum massage

she just woke up and had a feed so she’s okay now.

Just the longest she’s gone in between feeds, especially since she usually has a big feed before bed

Please don’t put anything besides milk in a bottle. It is incredibly dangerous as it’s a massive choking hazard!

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