New girlfriend problems
So my ex asked me this week if I was going to go see his family on Xmas because they are coming i said sure because his mom is very elderly and I want to see her she was an amazing in- law now he asked me if I can find some other day to see her I said I cant because I work and the only day I have is Xmas he tells me his girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable with me being there okay mind you he still lives with me, and my son or I have not met her so I proceed to tell him my son will not go because I have not met her he said okay no problem am I tripping or de he chose his girl over his son? I understand her feelings but I am going to be around for ever we have a child together
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You lost me at yall still live together and she’ll have a problem with you around at Christmas 🤨 girl what?! I’d still go because you have a relationship with his mom and your son should be with his family for the holidays. That new lady has to understand that no matter what yall have a child together and you’re more than likely going to be at family functions.
Yall still live together? But he has a girlfriend? She doesn’t feel a way about y’all living together? But feels a way about being around u on Christmas. Make it make sense.
Girl so she’s okay with him LIVING with you but she’s not okay to be in the same room as you on christmas for a few hours? The girlfriend sounds like a trip and she probably won’t be around long. She needs to be mature about it. So does your ex. She knew what she was getting into when dating him.
When is he moving out
U lost me at live together but honestly I will still show up to the in laws for Xmas so they can meet their grandchild an I can meet the so called Gf
Like does she know y'all live together 🤔😂
If y'all live together does he bring this girl around while u work ? I hope they not playing house without ur knowledge
Oh ok that's good
Yeah you lost me at yall live together as well do better
It’s not fair to treat the other lady that way, you are no longer his girlfriend and so he has to show up with his girlfriend and you want to be there on the same day?? He can go with his son to meet his grandparents and you don’t have to necessarily go with your son… what if you were sharing custody and he went to visit his parents with his son?? Will you have to go too because you are the mother?? That’s not fair cus he won’t follow you to your parents house when you have a boyfriend who is going to be there that day… try and go another day and let your son spend that day with his dad who will be taking his girlfriend out. You are being petty honestly
He didn't choose her over your son. This is not about a choice. Everyone can choose when they can see each other. You said son can't go since you didn't meet her. She's important, and your son is more important. But he is working on impressing his new girlfriend. Ask him if they can meet the family another day. So your son can see his grandparents. Or see if you can find another day to see them.
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