So is everyone’s blue collar bf too tired to want sex? We are TTC but he is finding it hard to do with work and overtime
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I do not relate unfortunately for the sake of advice, my boyfriend works in a warehouse doing physical labour 15 hours a day 4-5 times a week and on those days he works he still wants it 1-3 times a day

Maybe try digging some time out in the morning before he leaves for work

I have sex with my husband 2 times a month as sad as it sounds he drives 3+ hours a day and works a blue collar job and he is always tired

honestly we have the same problem. our situation is tough, we live with his parents, i’m a SAHM, he’s gone from 6am-6pm everyday working on huge kitchen equipment so by the time the evening comes around we’re both exhausted and just want to chill with each other. we’re still affectionate and we’re trying to have sex more often but most times we’re too tired. i would talk with him about it if it’s starting to bother you. sometimes i have to speak up with my husband because he can get tunnel visioned on work sometimes.

My boyfriend is a tow truck driver, he works 5 days a week, 12 hours shifts and is on call every night. We still have sex at least once a week minimum.

absolutely not my husband got home from a 13 hour shift 2 nights ago woke me up with eggs and bacon and i wasn’t even still fully awake when my clothes came off

Never. My hubby is the type that’s never “too tired for sex” he gets annoyed if we ever wake up and I say “I was horny last night but you were asleep I let you sleep” and he’s like “WHY DIDN’T YOU WAKE ME UP?!” I think it just really depends on the man. I’ve nudged my butt against his groin at 1am on many occasions to initiate and he responds immediately.