My grandfather just passed and it’s obviously getting cool out and I’ve got a knee length dress that’s black and a spaghetti strap romper with long pants also black . My other options in my wardrobe is jeans and solid color tops . Would it be okay to wear the all black romper to the indoor viewing and to wear the jeans and solid shirt with a sweatshirt the next day at the burial ? My grandpa was very casual not a dressed up kind of person . I’m not showing yet and this side of my family has no clue I’m pregnant let alone 6 months along . To be clear my grandpa even wore a flannel and jeans to his wife’s funeral a couple yrs ago
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I promise no one will care what you're wearing. Wear whatever you have that makes you comfortable. I'm sorry about your grandpa.
I’m a worrier . I know my husband will wear flannels and I have to pick out my sons clothes and then for myself I’m very limited on what I can wear since I donated most of my wardrobe a couple yrs ago since I’m a SAHM . I appreciate the condolences he’s my last grandparent to lose but I did c it coming he was put on hospice last week and had bad health issues he didn’t want treated prior he was at peace with passing and didn’t want to fight it

I totally get it. I'm a terrible worrier too, so I always try to give the kind of advice I'd need to hear.

Wear what your grandpa would want you to wear my relatives- grandparents brother Dad were never big on the fancy clothes or anything like that so jeans and a T-shirt were acceptable sounds like what you want to wear will be totally fine.