Marriage relations…

Is there context? Like you guys were watching something together or did he just free willed this bs into the conversation?

I would have slapped my husband straight up and walked out.

That’s wild

omg if my husband said that to me i would have gotten out of bed so fast, then i would have told him im not having sex with him anymore.. how insensitive and mean to compare you to a porn star

You can take or leave this depends on if you think what i have to say would help/hurt your relationship.
Me personally, I'd nip that in the bud and calmly state what was on my mind and if he didn't understand my p.o.v of explaining how that hurt my feelings....I'd flip the script and compare HIS performance to a cornstar or his p3nis size to that of a corn Stars etc and when he finally gets offended say Exactly now do you understand how your comment made ME feel!?!?! I've found sometimes Men need a DIRECT/blunt example of what they just did, done to them for them to understand the consequences of their own actions. 😔 ive had to calmly do that to my husband a few times to get him to be more self aware of his words and actions. Now he is much better and more mindful and is so much more emotionally mature and aware. Good luck sweetie!

I’d straight up offended. I’d be like go have her if that’s what you want. I’d be extremely offended if my man compared me to prn star and wanted me to do ACTIONS LIKE HER.

Tell him *corn* is not real life. Sometimes they are paid too if he's watching the really produced stuff (so wheres the $$$ for you?😑).

As some others have said, I'd tell him if he's not satisfied with what you willingly give, then he is free to seek it.

Your hubby is a bit of a moron, but they all can be sometimes lol.

Have you seen her videos? Cuz that’s a pretty bizarre question.. like how are you suppose to do what she does without knowing her.. or what she does.. or what she “seems to like”.

He does realize most are actors right? Somethings are just for the video.. for views..

Maybe he brought it up in a really shit way.. maybe he should’ve asked if you wanted to watch a video together and reenact it in bed? Or.. just said the things he wanted to do/try in words to you, like suggestions..

At the end of the day he shouldn’t be comparing a p star to you, his wife. That’s disrespectful, even more so cuz you told his you were uncomfortable with him watching it and HE AGREED he wouldn’t anymore.. unless it’s just from memory.. but still. There was a better way to go about it. Not what he said