dealing with a baby daddy drama

I have moved and deal with this i continue to do pick ups at his place or meet up i don’t have to give him my address there is no need i don’t feel comfortable with it because he will just pop up so i know the feeling you are not wrong as long as the child is safe thats all that matters

Hey Victoria,

You don’t have to provide the details of your address especially if you don’t feel comfortable doing it. You can just do pick up/meet ups at public places and echoing off what Charisma said - at his house etc. What matters is what feels safe for you and what is safe for your child(ren).

I haven’t personally dealt with this as I haven’t moved since splitting from my twins father however I did put a boundary in place that he’s not to come here anymore.

Just keep it broken record and don't tell him if you don't want to

and thank you both for the advice. When he brought me and my son down to Florida, we ended up staying here, but he went back to Minnesota. Because the relationship was mentally and verbally abusive, I’m not comfortable sharing my new address. He still has my old address since it’s on my permit, but I don’t want him knowing where we live now.

I tried to not tell mine but eventually I had a situation come up where he had to help my mom at my house so he needed to know where to go so now he knows 🤷‍♀️ oh well luckily he only showed up twice 🤦‍♀️ lol but yeah don't tell if you don't want to. My moto is the less I can say to my ex the better. Short and sweet. Kids are fine I gotta go. Avoiding all questions. No phone calls only texts helps as well