I know it’s not ethical so pls don’t comment that..

best you got is catching him when he puts it in but not making it obvious. you could record him typing in the passcode or if he’s the type , wait until he falls asleep while watching youtube or sumn on his phone

He would never!!! lool supppppper secretive with his phone 🥲 as soon as I speak he drops his phone and locks it

i do suggest that any chance you get alone w his phone ( idk if you have an iphone or not ) , make sure you try face id until the only option is to type in his passcode. then you’ll be able to time when to get up & be behind him so the screen is visible in the video

Yesss I’ll get my daughter to play with it 🕵️‍♀️🤣 thankyouuu

i know you didn’t ask for obvious answers but maybe ask him? this isn’t normal behaviour for someone who is in a relationship with you and has a daughter together .. if he says no then you’ve got you answer , he is hiding something.

If he’s cheating on you, ethics is no longer a player in the game. Get into that phone. (Remember to check his deleted text folder if he has an iPhone.)

I mean it doesn’t hurt to ask for it , I mean I never ask but some are understanding and just give it to you

go to messages , in the TOP RIGHT HAND CORNER click on the 3 lines , then click recently deleted. this is for the most recent iOS update

“Just ask him” lmfaoooo worst advice

If you want to do it the civil way then sit him down and have a conversation with him, tell him how you feel and if he brushes off like it's nothing and well gaslights and says your insecure then that's when you ask for his phone right there and then so he can prove that you are just being "insecure" and it he refuses you'll have your answer then that's when you two are over. And again if he tries to make you stay, insults you or anything just know you've done NOTHING wrong.

Of course if you don't want to be civil you're gonna have to get smart and try and watch him when he's putting in his passcode, and when given a chance to go onto his phone you do it and if you find any evidence hes cheating then you take photos of everything!

I think instead of gathering evidence you need to find the strength for your child/children and leave. Things won't get better, you'll become more and more paranoid and it'll eat you alive. Trust me I know, I managed to go through my partner's phone a few months ago and I left him, he grovelled and promised he would change I was stupid and took him back and well im still finding it really hard to trust him. He has kinda changed but he's slowly going back to his old ways because I didn't just leave him because of what I found I left him because he didn't help out around the house. I mean I am still doing everything but he kinda helps. I'm personally gonna get Xmas out the way and see how things go in the new year but of course you don't want my life story, just honestly Hun you're gonna have to find the strength to leave him regardless if you can gather evidence or not

Hmm, I know everyone's different but I would sit down with him and say you have some concerns and why and simply ask to go through his phone... Anyone innocent would say 'yeah, ok.'

My partner literally did this to me when we first got together because I'd been behaving weird. I wasn't cheating or anything, I was just so used to lying to people that I adopted some weird habits. He went through my phone, it made me nervous even though I knew there was nothing to see. He then apologised and said I've got to stop being so secretive and 8 years on, we're just fine.

😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️ oh mama I’m so sorry , I hope you get your strength