Anal sex

Hey!! What’s your thoughts about anal sex? Hubby wants us to try anal but I never tried it or even had any thoughts about it. Have any one tried it? Does it hurt? I don’t know if I’m being closed minded here, but doing anal refers to men being gay or bisexual?

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He likes men lowkey 😂 how could he leave pussy and want to try something unnatural

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Yes it hurts unless you have a lot of lube… I don’t think it means they are gay, a lot of guys have a fascination with it… definitely not even close to my fav thing… also you start having runny shit if he cums inside your booty

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My husband is big fan of anal sex. Me I am not. I have been able to climax being on top. me being on top is easier since i can control how far and how fast. Go to the bathroom before hand. Lube is a must!!! Definitely start with a finger and see how it goes. My husband likes it because it’s tighter and the feeling is different. He’s not gay or bi sexual. He’s just been more experienced in things than I am. I have tried a few times and only once was I okay with the out cum 😆

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Men who love anal sex like men simple . Your pussy isn’t fascinating to them anymore they pressure you to do anal then leave you in the end don’t do it

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Y’all are trippin. Just cuz a dude wants a different hole doesn’t make him gay.

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I mean have I had it yes , but it was more to please my partner . It wasn’t painful but it wasn’t like turning me on if you know what I mean, yes use lube if you do it girl. Make sure your not constipated when you do it because it can be painful if your not experienced

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It definitely doesn't make anyone gay wth lmao... I think the more open minded a person is, the more likely you are to enjoy it. It takes a lot of care. And even more lube. Like, yeah there is pain, but that doesnt have to be all.

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Omg ignore all these stupid homophobic comments. I’ve never done it but probably will one time for the one time. lol

It doesn’t make anyone gay.

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No, men wanting anal doesn’t make them gay or bi 🙄
Also, it’s the worst. It hurts and it sucks lol I mean some women really like it so I don’t want to speak on behalf of the ladies here who do.

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Porn stars make it look way too easy

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How does a man having anal sex with a woman make them gay. Itd be gay if they did it with a man. But they’re not doing that. So.

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Some of these comments remind me of those guys who say it’s gay to have sex with someone who isn’t a virgin because their dick is touching where another man’s dick was. Wild.

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No they’re not gay. My man is far from gay and he loves giving me anal BUT he needs to make me orgasm at least a couple times already to get the juices flowing, make things a lil more relaxed and wet down there, a long foreplay for me, then he starts the anal prep if your man just sticks it in w no prep it’s gonna hurt like a mofo. If he wants it he needs to prep it and mine does, we still go in super slow and gentle though. We don’t need lube…but my man’s done his prep so by the time he’s ready it’s a slippery water slide down there lol.

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The anus doesnt lubricate naturally like our vagina….let that sink it 😂 the answer is nah. Strengthen that pelvic floor and vaginal walls dont let him stretch your asshole for his pleasure and if he insists, tell him youll agree if you can try anal on him too. Shared experience 🤸🏾‍♀️😭

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Eh, I like it when I’m turned on. Actually I like it a lot when I’m turned on, it’s very different. Buuuutttt, if I’m not relaxed and not turned on and we go straight to anal it hurts soooo much and I can’t continue. I have to have plenty of vaginal first, but it’s honestly a lot of fun in the right headspace.

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Doesn’t make him gay at all, me and my kids dad have done it a few times he’d never even thought about it it was my idea, but I’ve gotta be fully in the mood and I’ve gotta be like the river Nile because it does hurt, lots of lube though and a towel down🤣 xx

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Absolutely not. It’s an exit not an entrance.

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Saying anal is gay is such odd logic 😭you are not gay if you wanna fuck a FEMALES asshole

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Is getting a blow job or hand job gay? Men have mouths and hands too 😱😱😱

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Looking at the comments, anal sex doesnt even sound like something thats pleasurable for women 😂😭 yall gotta be supperrrr relaxed and lubed down just for it to be enjoyable? Ill forever pass. A lil thumb in the butt or a lil tongue is cool. Id even venture to say if hes not gay (🙄) your hole may not be tight enough anymore which is tragic, hit the kegals.

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