HELLO i need some help i have no idea what to do my 4 year old daughter keeps pushing and pushing my buttons al tell her not to do somthing 1,000 times and she keeps doing it i really don’t understand nor know what to do i spend all day getting on her butt about everything …. it’s driving me crazy :(
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Have you established any healthy consequences for breaking rules/boundaries? My daughter isn’t addicted to her iPad or anything, she prefers real life play. But we communicate to her that if she doesn’t follow the rules, she doesn’t get special things like the IPad. However, I would never take away or even threaten to take away a comfort item, for example the stuffy she sleeps with. That causes unnecessary anxiety.

Change your strategy, give her tasks and reward her
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