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HELLO i need some help i have no idea what to do my 4 year old daughter keeps pushing and pushing my buttons al tell her not to do somthing 1,000 times and she keeps doing it i really don’t understand nor know what to do i spend all day getting on her butt about everything …. it’s driving me crazy :(

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Have you established any healthy consequences for breaking rules/boundaries? My daughter isn’t addicted to her iPad or anything, she prefers real life play. But we communicate to her that if she doesn’t follow the rules, she doesn’t get special things like the IPad. However, I would never take away or even threaten to take away a comfort item, for example the stuffy she sleeps with. That causes unnecessary anxiety.

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Change your strategy, give her tasks and reward her

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Any nappy recs advice for nappy leaks at night? My 7 month old has just started consistently leaking, I’ve sized up in nappies and tried Aldi and rascals but no luck.

Has anyone had better results with pull ups? He’s just big enough now I think but I wasn’t sure if Aldi pull ups are any good?

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Is it ok to let a newborn (2weeks) sleep if already past birth weight or wake to feed ?

No hate for having a sleepy baby please my first was an awful sleeper so I know how triggering these posts can be 😂… but

My 2 week old slept for almost 6hours last night and we woke him even though he seemed pretty tired and would have slept longer. He’s been a sleepy baby since birth but feeds a lot throughout the day and has surpassed his birth weight but my husband woke me last night to say we need to wake the baby to feed. I said I’d get up and pump and let the baby sleep but he said we shouldn’t let him go over 6 hours without a feed….

Should we wake him? Thoughts below please :)

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Anyone else co nap with their babies/kids? I keep getting told "oh just put her down in her cot where she should be" "you can get stuff done then"
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Sorry for the rant guys. Anyone understand?

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Sleep stretches?!

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Does this get better?

My baby has just turned three months and he’s gone back to sleeping like he’s a newborn, so unsettled all night especially after his first stretch.
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