Family bs
How are yall dealing with toxic family members?
My family is just so much to deal with i hate to keep talking about their bs with my hubby I’m sure he’s tired of it.
I’m the youngest of all my siblings let’s just start there the sister closest to ms in age she’s just so disrespectful and talks to everyone crazy. I’m use to the bs so i normally just ignore it never say anything which almost everyone does
I finally said something to her about it and she called out my name called me a bitch told me that I’m ugly called me fat etc etc mind you i never once said anything like that to her but told her how selfish she was and after her calling me names i told her she’s very unhappy with herself which is clear i just hate things like that were said to me from my sister 🥲
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You know what I learned from my toxic ass family? The way they insult you, tells you exactly what they’re insecure about. So, if it’s “you ain’t got no man,” they are miserable in their marriage. If it’s “you ugly, you fat,” they’re worried about their own looks.
I don’t get in the gutter like my sister, but I will give her a thorough and analytical truth thrashing. I’m a professional at that. They hate when you see through them right down to their motives and insecurities.
With your baby sister, I’d clown her immaturity and would big sister her in front of a crowd. Calmly telling her why she’s unhappy in her life may not shut her up in the moment, but she’ll definitely remember it. Laughing at her when she’s on her roll might be effective. Tell her to go outside and play. Don’t take her seriously at all.
Cutting folks off and loving from a very far distance and putting myself first. Its ok to put yourself first and your family! Keep the toxicity out of your peace bubble.
What I learned this year with toxic family members is that they will never change and bring you down no matter what they do and I had to stop talking to some of my family because they were toxic and trying make it hard because they couldn’t handle the fact I didn’t follow their advice of how to enter act with other family members that talk bad about me
I gave up trying. Like I have accepted my wrongs and fixed them to the best of my ability (everyone makes mistakes.) The thing is they can never accept their wrongs that they do to me, I’m always the bad person in their story and the villain. It’s ok I’ll be the villain though because God knows. I just let it be, i’m done trying and eventually I’m going to stop going around.
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