Why do men think…
That after all the hurt and betrayal they’ve done… we’re still supposed to remain the same?
How do they expect us not to bring it up during every argument just because “it’s in the past”, but it’s not so much in the past because they KEEP doing it??!
Why do they think that after months/ years of this betrayal that the sex is going to be the same?? They’ll sit there and wonder why they can’t make their spouse climax anymore…
They’ll think it’s because there’s someone else… because they don’t look good to you anymore… they question the size of their dick.. “is it big enough?”…
But they won’t think it’s the random thoughts we get remembering the betrayal & with those thoughts come questions…
Why did he do it ?
Am I not good enough anymore?
What does she have that I don’t?
Does he really love me?
Why does he love me?
Am I not worthy of loyalty?
Is this what love is?
Why do we stay after all the betrayal?
Because we just love them that much, we’re willing to fight against ourselves… instead of fighting for ourselves…
*IF YOU’VE NEVER FELT THIS WAY OR BEEN IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS.. RESPECTFULLY KEEP YOUR NEGATIVE OPINIONS TO YOURSELVES*
Ladies if you’re in this situation, currently… and just need someone to talk to, to get it off your chest.. I AM HERE..
I know how you feel.. I know what you’re going through… I’m offering my listening ears, because I wish I had someone to vent to about things like this.. it really is better to let it out, than to hold it in.. you’ll eventually break and snap if you don’t let it out…
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it’s been almost two years since i found out, i still think about it basically every day and some times it does come up in arguments. mainly cause i feel like he needs to be making it up to me for the rest of his life. but he’s always been like “it’s in the past” or “how do you expect me to get better and move on from it if you just bring it up all the time” definitely a really hard place to be. also really hard to talk about it when you can’t talk to the person who did it to you and you don’t want to bring it up to others cause it’s kind of embarrassing.. i’ve gotten to the point where i try to separate my feelings from it and force myself not to think about it. it’s the only way I’ve been able to stay cause i don’t think ill ever be able to forgive him or understand why he did it.
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