Help, clueless!

Hiya. So long story short.. im trying to be a mum at age 36. Im on day 28 of my cycle... and passed my usual period day. Im crying writing this. So basically I track my temp on my galaxy watch and saw I went right down in temp to the minus had some pinky brown spotting.. then it stopped my temp has slowly rose each night to now plus 0.8 fahrenheit. Today I had some spotting again.. very light pinkish brown.. I then popped a q tip inside just to see if anything else going on. It then became heavy dark reddy brown colour and now im scared. Ive had constant lower back ache for several days.. and my stomache has been hurting on and off. Im so scared. Can anyone help me please. I have pics but not sure if im allowed to share. X

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How much blood? A few drops is normal for implantation but more than that could be a sign of period instead, I am saying a prayer for you and wishing you a happy healthy baby

I stopped the pill 6 cycles ago. First time unprotected sex this month. Its all new to me and everything seems crazy. I have had lower back pain for 5 days now and my stomache is hurting on and off. When I dont put a q tip in its very light drops on my pad. Im scared I killed it by putting a q tip in 😞 i feel so stupid. Im 36 nearly 37 maybe im just not cut out to be trying to be a mum as im finding it scary and too overwhelming. Thank you for commenting by the way I soooo appreciate you reaching out

I was 36 with my first daughter after 14 years of ttc, we gave up trying and she pleasantly suprised us. I'm also pregnant again 30 weeks, I'm 38 this year, please don't give up or be disheartened xx
Have you done a pregnancy test to see if positive? You could then go to the early pregnancy unit for advice

Can you still have some heavier implantation bleeding and still be pregnant or not? Xx

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