Second guessing sexuality or perhaps bisexual.
I’ve been with my partner 5 years now and I’ve always wanted to explore what else is out there but never got the chance before I settled down.
I have no one to really talk to about how I am feeling but I know women just understand women so much better with how we feel and the thought and care of doing nice things.
If there any other mums in this situation or have been in this situation?
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I knew I was bisexual before I got with my husband. I had been with women before we got together. However, I didn’t tell him until 2 years into our relationship, I also said I miss the feeling of being with a woman sexually. We had a long conversation and set boundaries and he said he was happy for me to explore being sexual with another woman if that’s what I wished. I know every man is different and some find it cheating. We’ve been together 9 years and married for just over 1 year now. Being honest with him really helped me mentally. I only ever explored being with another woman a few times but with one woman. It felt like cheating at first but knowing my husband was okay with it made it easier. He still feels the same now but I don’t really have time for it anymore seen as I gave birth to my daughter nearly 4 months ago 😅
The only thing I could suggest is be honest on how you’re feeling, see how the conversation flows and go from there. You can always message me if you like ❤️
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