Am I wrong

Ok so I just found out I am pregnant just a day ago an my husband had walked into my parents room an told them in a weird way but I didnt want to tell anyone atm until I was further along as this is biologically my 2 child an my sister's know now as my oldest sister was supposed to be pregnant with me an so I had to let her know an my other sister saw the test an I go to my room an my husband follows after talking to my sister for a minute an he told me he doesn't think it's fair that we told my side but dont tell his side. A lil backstory on my Mil every since I had my bio 1st child that made it to where we had 3 kids an so this would be our fourth however we lived with Mil for 2 years an when I mentioned I wanted to have 1 more kid she kept saying things as "I'm gonna make it to where you can't have a fourth" and "im gonna use a wrench on your husband an then you can't have a fourth" an at first my husband didnt want a fourth either so I gave up on wanting a fourth child for a while until my husband told me he did want a fourth an my husband a month ago played a prank on his mom telling her that we was pregnant an her response was "are you fucking serious" in a mean tone as if she was upset about it an I dont want to tell her until further along the pregnancy until I know I won't have a miscarriage am i wrong on not wanting to tell his side?

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Not at all, maybe try to fully breakdown and talk through why you want to wait and why it’s standard to wait anyways

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