Had enough, sorry need to vent.

Well were do I start. Well I was in a 5 yr relationship with my youngest sons father. It wasn't a good relationship at all i was accused of cheating on him making up stories about him. I had to be on the phone to him 24/7 because if I wasn't then he would accuse me of seeing other blokes. I havent been in a relationship with for nearly a year now but I made the fatal mistake of helping him out as he had a lot going on in his house. Now yesterday I got a load of abuse from saying nasty things about my eldest son, he told me our 5 yr old son to hit me. I was then kicked and pushed because I wanted to take our son back with me as it was my night to have him but he wouldn't let me. For the rest of the day and night I got text messages and phone calls from saying that I am so ugly that I killed my mum (who was my best friend). I got called all the names under the sun. And then I got woken up this morning by him saying he won't be taking our son to school because he doesn't have the time. To then I get messages all day again giving me abuse some saying I should have cut deeper ( I used to suffer from self harming when I was younger). Others saying our son doesn't like me and that he doesn't want to see me and that I'm a shit mum. He then goes on about me giving him back the stuff that I have stored for him at my house and I had to ask when I was picking my son up from him. He then gave me a time, I went there and took everything out of my car for him then to say it isn't going to all fit in his car, I turned around and said that's what you asked for and that I wasn't going to help him out anymore. One of the boxes had collapsed at the bottom when I took it out of my car to then I get accused of throwing it down on the ground, I put the stuff back in the boxes and moved it by his car he then picked it up and the contents fell out again. He then proceeded to take photos of me driving off with my children and then said he has gold dust to go to court because I drove off and left him there with his stuff. I have now got messages saying how I need to grow up and that he has always looked after me. I have never asked anything from him and I have always helped him when he says no one helps him at all. I have now had to draw a line with this now as he has said things that have gone to far with regards to my eldest son and my mum who is no longer here.

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I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. I would absolutely not leave my kids with him. Document absolutely everything. Save messages record phone calls, and conversations and go to court. Get a restraining order. And take those kids. I wouldn’t hold it past this guy to hurt them to try and hurt you. Also everything he’s saying is bullshit. I hope you know that. Don’t let him get to your head he’s just trying everything in his power to hurt you and make you miserable. Don’t let him have that 💕

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Thank you so much for your message. We already have a court order in place for our son that we share. My eldest son is by a different father. It had taken me a long time to leave him in the past. And I feel stupid that I have helped him out for the last couple of months because he made me feel sorry for him. I have tried to keep our child away from him but he then accuses me of using our son as a weapon. He will use everything in his power to bring me down but I am keeping a strong head on me and not giving into him, as he is now saying that he is sorry for everything, well sorry just doesn't cut it not after everything that he has said and done again.

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Don't get so involved with him. It clearly isn't doing anyone any good. You have yourself and your son to worry about, that's it.

Keep all of those texts and show them to your attorney, I'd seek full custody.

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Seek full custody that sounds like drug use

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