Struggling Ttc baby no 2

I have been Ttc baby no 2 for 7 months now and nothing is happening.. I am using lh tests and finding my peaks but still negative pregnancy tests.. it didn’t seem this hard with my first baby does anyone have any tips? I no it can take time but I’m so worried something is wrong as I heard of secondary infertility but I don’t want to spiral

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I think that trouble is that it’s so individual Mama…
My first was conceived within 2 months,our second took a year.
For me though,it did coincide with a period of extreme stress and some issues with my periods/ ovarian cysts.
I quit my job,stopped worrying,got medical treatment for the cysts and was pregnant about a month later.I know someone wirh secondary infertility but they also had massive issues with pain/ periods after their kid’s birth.
I can’t comment on your individual circumstances but I wish you all the best :)

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Not any advice but I know how you feel we’ve been trying for a year now and no luck 🍀! Sending baby dust xx

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Im the same hun, since my emergency c section ive had two MC and i had one before my daughter too. Took me 7 months to concieve her! Think its just one of these things you have to roll with xx

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It’s really a personal thing and nobody can really give you the answer. We conceived both ours unexpectedly. I have a 2 year old and 3 month old. However I’d advise stop putting pressure on it and destress as stress is a massive factor on the struggle to conceive. I watch a lady on TikTok/Instagram and she had 2 girls and really struggled to conceive baby no3 and her best advice was to stop trying, stop putting pressure on it happening and go with the flow. She had baby no3 in October after trying for over a year xx

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Thank you for your advice ladies.. just out of interest do you use lh tests? Is the best time to bd when you have a peak lh test right? I no it sounds silly but I just want to make sure I’m doing it right. Although sometimes I feel like we bd so much we end up getting burnt out when it’s peak

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