Can we talk mother in laws. I need some sisterhood I'm Struggling.
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Im here girl

I have been there. Ur not alone.

Ugh what is she doing? Sorry you have to deal with whatever it is… 😣 I’m lucky that my mother in law is great, but I’m really struggling with some other older women in my family. One of them is here this weekend helping out. My husband is grateful for the help… I know I should be too but I CANNOT wait until she’s out of my house. My nervous system has been at like a 9/10 panic all weekend.

I have a love/hate relationship with mine. Last time I just scheduled her visit to help out when I was out of town…

Girl tell us abt it, it really is a struggle

I’m Here, The Easiest Thing For Me Was To “ Cut That B***** Off 🤷🏾♀️😂

My MIL is dead. This will happen for you too, just give it time. 🌈

Join the club

The literal MOST important thing is that your husband has your back and is on your side. If he's not you have a husband problem more than a mother in law problem.

Well some of us will be MiL in the future…

Chile, I could write a book

I am currently not talking to my mother in law, as she goes behind my back and does the opposite what I say

Thankfully mine doesn’t speak or understand English so I have an excuse to not talk to her often, but I’ve had to block her on all social media because she’d take it upon herself to send me horrible messages with the help of Google translate 🤦🏼♀️

Just ignore her.
Go on your phone when you visit.
Smile when you need to.
Play with your children.
Run off to do nap time with your child.
Ignore and you will be happy.
Right now not even bothered by mines.

I hear ya !! My mother in law gives me anxiety...even just hearing her name !! We don't keep in contact with her but here and there she'll call !! 🤦🏼♀️