Struggling with secondary miscarriages

I’m 37, have a healthy 3.5yr old. We had our first miscarriage in July at under 8 weeks. Sadly after 4 months of trying we’ve just had another miscarriage at 5 weeks.

I know this can be normal, all the signs seem okay but hard to be positive.

Has anyone experienced this and gone on to have another baby? Advice welcome x

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I had a miscarriage in 2017, then another one in 2019, then had my little boy in 2022. It’s horrible, especially when you’ve got no explanation for why it’s happened. So sorry for your loss xx

Hi! I have a September baby too, and had a miscarriage last April at 8 weeks

Since having my miscarriage i worked on myself getting healthy eating right a lot of seeds, protein and I did juices at home, I took fertility support by wild nutrition I took omega 3, magnesium and when I got my first positive line on the test I took 75MG of Asprin once a night before bed

Later to find out that actually I had low pappa and at 12 weeks they put me on 150MG of asprin!
So I took the right call! I’m now 38+2 with my rainbow baby!

If you have any questions please reach out I know how lonely this feels!!!

Thank you so much. This time feels a bit easier to manage mentally as I’d barely known a week but obviously as you’ve experienced is quite hard emotionally.

I’ve been working out and eating well this last 6 weeks which I really believe played a factor in at least getting pregnant.

I’ve heard coq10 is good, what brand did you use?

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