No connection
So my baby dad was meant to see the kids on the 18th but he cancelled because his partner son has chickenpox and you keep letting them down as every time the day approaches for him to meet with them he cancels now he’s saying he might have suspect sepsis he hasn’t reach out at all I have him on WhatsApp he’s watching my story but not checking up on the girls I’m trying to do co parenting but it’s so hard when he trying to be difficult I just looking out for my girls they are 3 and 2 he keeps letting them down
What should I do he never ask about them he just talks about his new partner and her kids he’s taking her kids to school not once as he offer to take them school or get involved
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Once I realized he didn’t wanna actually be a parent, unfortunately I took that how it was, he wants to cancel? Is what it is, doesn’t wanna communicate to them? Is what it is. Your girls will know who was there, let alone if he tried to take you to court, document everything therefore it shows you were trying then gave up once you realized he never wanted to talk about yalls children, it seems as if his new family is more important, I get ppl get sick, but if this is a reoccurring situation, I’d feel some type of way to. If he’s not on CS, get him on CS, he doesn’t wanna parent but he sure will one way or another. It’s not ok for him to disregard your girls just bc he has another kid. That’s now how life works. I’m sorry you’re going thru this, hugs mama❤️🩹
My daughters dad is disappointing. I wont tell her the “plans “ her dad has until I know forsure it is going to happen . So sometimes things end up being a surprise for her but Its hard dealing with this issues & then we get blamed because dad wont show up . & CRAZY he can be around his partners kid but not his own . Sometimes I hate guys !
Well I agree he should definitely at least check in more . I’d give it a little bit of a time if no improvement and him not doing his part put him on child support
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