When is it bad or too much? He’s not physical or anything like that but his temper is extra short since baby was born and now she’s not sleeping and causing all sorts of chaos and has a right sassy attitude on her. The thing now is he’s clearly worn out and will slam doors and kick furniture when we’re not there and it’s not nice to see him like that. He’s always been shouty when he’s angry but he’ll apologise after for it. Does it resolve or does it go further?
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Slamming doors and kicking furniture is a big red flag IMO, some organisations would class this as domestic abuse because of the intimidation aspect. You shouldn’t have to be scared in your own home.

This dude is going to expect their child to be emotionally intelligent when as a whole ass adult he is not. He has anger issues. He is displaying physical violence towards inanimate objects because he can't be asked to control his negative emotions. Bet he expects you kid to though...

His anger and behaviour is not okay. Its not good for you or your daughter to be around that. I think he should get some help with his anger, maybe some therapy

never gets better some people are just angry people it’s how they handle things that’s never going to change if it doesn’t sit right with u leave, i had the same issue with my daughter farther she’s always had a short temper things ended up getting physical it wasn’t bad he didn’t beat me up or anything but at the end of the day i decided i didn’t want an angry man in my house. now im with some who i’ve never even seen yell not a drop of anger in him and let me tell u the peace it brings was much needed