This is a hard post to make but this morning I had a miscarriage and I don’t know how to keep going right now. Any advice will be greatly appreciated. I was only about nine weeks pregnant. I know that’s not far along but I was already so connected to my little bean
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I’m so sorry for your loss. It doesn’t matter how far you are, it’s still a loss and shouldn’t be made to feel any less. It’s hard for us as mums because we do emotionally connect from the beginning.
Nothing will make you feel any better right now, but just remember you’re not alone, even though at times it might feel like it. Be open about it, if you need to talk about it, let it out.
Be open to friends, family or a councillor if you’re struggling.
Maybe make a memorial of some sort if that would bring you some comfort. Sending you lots of hugs and strength. Xx

So sorry for your loss Bre. You never have to minimise because you weren’t really far along. A loss is a loss and you deserve time to grieve. Only advice I’d have is to not suffer in silence. Tell your loved ones, tell work if you feel comfortable. People are very understanding and will support you xx