Crazy question

She's dating your stepdad and is saying you're trying to steal her man?? 🤨 That's crazy. Tell your stepdad you don't want her there and have him talk to her 🤷🏽‍♀️ I didn't invite my dad's gf to my wedding cause I just felt it wasn't her place to be there

I have step mom issues, and don’t talk to my step dad anymore because of it. He always defended her poor behavior (which I somewhat get because they are married, it’s wife over anything and everything).
But i’d express to your step dad that she isn’t invited because of ABC, and if he doesn’t respect that then I guess it’s up to you to even have him there. If he’s willing to miss out because of not having her there then he’s made his choice

if that makes sense

i’ve been dealing with this for so long that she just doesn’t even phase me anymore, I see her and can laugh about it because I know she’s just a sick minded person. She can be around and it doesn’t effect my day, obviously unless she starts something but she never does, she very much knows her place