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I posted about having an unwanted pregnancy and I didn’t realize how unsupportive people can be. Such a shame how someone can be so vulnerable and open up to be criticized. My feelings are not hurt by your comments because I know there are plenty of people who are in my shoes who are dealing with this in silence. Aborting this baby is my option! If you have an unwanted pregnancy and you choose to deal with it in your own way I support you! No one should have to do something they do not want to.
I will always advocate for people who aren’t strong enough to do it themselves 💗

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And that absolutely shows ur selfishness and incompetence and it’s disgusting! You posted about how to abort an unborn baby through home abortion using alcohol because you opened your legs and got pregnant be so fr! like I said in the other posts a-swell maybe have the heart to think maybe this isn’t the app to post about me wanting to kill my baby when women have desperately been trying to conceive and or had just lost there own child without wanting to and seeing a post like yours I’m sure is very hurtful to those women again there is a reason why there are no abortion groups on here, you can easily go to one on Facebook or look up support groups on Google not a mothers app.

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Sex can lead to pregnancy. If you didn't want another child, then you should have been more careful. If you claim to advocate for people who aren't strong enough for themselves, then you should definitely advocate for the baby that's inside you. It's ridiculous.

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I had an abortion back in 2023 best decision I’ve ever made not only for me but for that baby. I had just moved into my own apartment and at that time I was drinking and smoking heavily. Unfortunately for the first three months of the pregnancy I had no idea I was pregnant because I kept getting my period once I found out I know if I kept that baby it would have so many complications which would not only be hard on the baby but hard on me and I just wasn’t ready for that. 3 years later I now have a 10 month old baby who I love to the moon and back (not the same baby fyi)

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I will always advocate for women having an abortion because if that woman is not ready to take care of a baby then she is not ready to be the best possible mom that baby deserves

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I want you to know first that I’m not judging you. I can only imagine how overwhelming this must feel. A lot of us grow up being told that abortion is the only option to unwanted pregnancy.It can seem like the quickest way to make everything stop.
But you do have other options. Adoption is always an option, and there are so many women and families who are praying for the chance to love and raise a child. You don’t have to parent if you’re not ready but you could still protect this little life and give them the opportunity to grow up in a loving home.
From the very beginning, at conception, there is the start of a new, unique life. Nothing about this situation is meaningless, even if it feels scary right now. Maybe you don’t feel ready to be a mother and that’s okay to admit but you are capable of making a powerful, compassionate choice that protects someone who cannot protect themselves.

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I just searched the app’s groups page, there are several private and public abortion groups that you could post your questions in that should receive less criticizing responses.

I hope you find the answers and support you’re looking.

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You're surprised at hateful comments when you're trying to kill another human being?

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I want to be supportive and still stand by reposting in a different group. Because what someone chooses to do with their body is none of my business. But I also can’t help but feel like we’re being trolled… 3 posts in 14 hours.

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I’m with you. it’s your body and asking to use alcohol says you’re in a desperate situation so I heavily support you no one should go through a pregnancy that they don’t want to have.

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The definition of this app on google literally states that this app was designed for women to connect during fertility, pregnancy, motherhood, and menopause and mainly for finding mom friends. This whole app supports the standard of having and raising children and finding like minded women who are also trying to have/have had children. No where in the description does it mention anything about abortions. I am very pro choice (although I do not agree with having home abortions especially through alcohol - if you’re going to abort at least look at safe regulated options) but the original poster should have very well known and been prepared to get backlash in an app that is again about having/planning for children and finding mom friends. There are plenty of other groups out there and resources you can look up. The original poster also stated that they have a baby and are postpartum, if that’s the case you should be very familiar with educating yourself and researching things on your own.

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I love ur post & agree with it! Stay strong mama. Please ignore these ppl. Im 35 now bt I had two abortions from when I was 15 & 17 yrs old. I was a minor both times & I don’t regret it one bit. Best decision i ever made for myself cuz it changed the trajectory of my life. Bt I had them done in Minnesota where it was legal. Cant imagine going thru what ur going thru being in this state that made abortions illegal. Im so sorry. Sending u hugs 🫶🏾

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i think it was more about how you were going to abort it… abortion is a thing, and we are all grown enough to acknowledge that. but it was the way you said going about it that people are inputting. not saying your wrong or their wrong, i have my own opinion and that’s not for me to share… but, just be responsible please

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No judgment here! You have to make the best decision for you. No one else has to live your life but you

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Stop acting like you just talked about doing it the right way when you know damn well you were gonna get some voice on drinking a baby to its death… I hope this post was a troll and not real…

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Girl, I support your decision. Screw them who don’t, it’s not their life, their body and they aren’t affected by it you are.

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