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Stay At Home Mamas 🤍

Just venting

I feel like I have nothing of my own and I don’t mean because I’m a mom. My husband, his mom and I all live together. His mom doesn’t know boundaries and I honestly don’t know how to navigate this situation. She wears my shoes without asking, she has came into my room and taken pillows she thinks is hers along with socks she thinks are hers. She washes my stuff without telling me and I’m currently going through a possible diagnosis of OCD so I know that doesn’t help the situation. I just like to sort out my clothes and things before I wash them. The past week has been hell and yesterday she decides to use the washcloth that I use for my baby bottles on a flood that the sink was having. She’s in my bathroom moving stuff and cleaning it to how she likes it. Currently she does pay majority of the bills because there was an agreement prior to all of us moving in together that she decided not to keep her end of that agreement and so now me and my husband are struggling with certain things my baby has everything he needs he’s fine but she is so selfish but acts like she’s the most selfless person on this planet. I can’t stand it anymore. There was so much she promised and said that now she swears she never said. I just want my area, my space, my stuff. Is it that hard to respect someone’s privacy. I’ve never had a lot in my life and I was raised not to touch things that aren’t mine so I never use anything that is hers.