12 month review

What to expect at 12 month review?

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Its just a walk through the questionnaire in a nutshell really and just to go over if you have any concerns regarding development or any other concerns. Baby is weighed and mine spoke about giving vitamins at 12 months and also spoke about how my little one was getting on with food etc, it was nice to have a good catch up after not seeing the HV for sometime.

We had ours today, like the above we just went through a questionnaire and they had a little play area set up to see how she would interact with the toys and books.

Development questionnaire which you can find online depending on how old you little one is it will be either 10 month ASQ or 12 month ASQ they will also ask about baby's diet, milk intake, sleep, if at nursery, dental care, your concerns, home and pet safety. Height, weight & head circumference. Should ask if everything is okay at home, any changes in circumstances or job status and give any advice on development. It's really standard and is usually done by a Nursery Nurse, Family Health Practitioner or Staff Nurse, depending on where you live, instead of a Health Visitor. I do them for work and they're really casual and baby/parent led.
If you're worried, feel free to drop me a message and I can walk you through what we would do in my trust 🥰

in our community

When did you circumcise your baby?
If you DID NOT or DO NOT have a circumcised son DO NOT comment this post is not for you!

Did you wait a certain amount of time or have it done immediately?
Again respectfully, this is only for the parents who choose to do so.
opinions about how not necessary it is will not be appropriate for this post. Thank you in advance. 🩵

Can someone pls help i keep making this post and nobody is responding

My boyfriend booked a trip for us to go to mexico for a week as my push present. I have severe anxiety leaving my 7 month old with my mom. I know she will be in good hands but she’s exclusively breast fed for the most part but accepts bottles just fine. i have all my pumping parts packed and will pump when baby normally eats but i don’t want baby to forget me or have latch issues when i return!! any mommas ever experience this?

Postpartum

I’m only 3 days postpartum (FTM) and already have extremely bad anxiety. I’m crying every night, as I think of another night of no sleep. My baby will not settle in his cot, he cries every moment we put him down unless in his chair rocker. So me and my partner are having to alternate after 3/4 hours of being awake with him downstairs. I’m trying everything to get him to settle. It’s a load of overwhelming stress. I’m 23, I was desperate for a baby and now I have one and feel completely useless. I miss it just being me and my partner.

I feel like just a milk cow

Hi I have a 16 day old via c section, I'm a FTM never having been around babies before as I am the youngest of my household and from a small family. My husband is fantastic with our little one. But ever since I've had the baby I just feel like the only thing I'm good for is producing milk. I feel disconnected from my husband like the only reason he's around is because am producing milk. We were having some issues before the baby and we're struggling it took a while to feel like he was onboard even though he said he was from the moment we found out. I dunno if I'm feeling like a spear part because I'm lacking confidence with baby or because I feel like he wouldn't mind being a single dad. Is this postpartum hormones or something else?

When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Crawling

Did anyone’s little one start crawling yet? I feel like we are falling behind but really have no idea. I’m trying to introduce more floor time but it’s been rough because of having hardwood floors and our 80 lb oblivious to life dog. I got us a carpet for the living room and trying to put the dog out more when the weather allows. She sits like a pro and will roll to get the things she needs😅 but no real signs of crawling yet.