This is for my moms with 2+ kids only!

I felt the same way when my husband and I were trying for a second. I got pregnant when my son was 9 months and it was honestly the best decision we could’ve made. My son is about to turn 2 and my daughter is 5 months old and he has adjusted very well to having a sibling. I try to give him as much attention as I can and try to include him in things when I’m busy with the baby, like have him shake his sissy’s bottle or throwing away her diapers (he’s in a throwing everything in the trash phase lol) and I think creating schedules for them has also helped me balance my time between the two! If you feel ready, I would say go for it!

It’s definitely hard in the beginning. My youngest is 15 months now and my oldest is almost 3 and a half. I had a hard time saying goodbye to spending all my time with my oldest. I still very much miss that. But seeing my girls together and starting to play more and watching my oldest try to teach her sister words melts my heart. I think you always have guilt in the beginning, but you find a new normal and do the best you can to integrate both kids in your life. It’s not always the same as far as time given since a younger child can require more attention. But I try to make special time for my oldest to get her out and do things. I don’t regret it at all ❤️

I mean I accidentally got pregnant 6 months PP and although I'd originally planned a slightly bigger age gap I'm so far loving having my girls 15 months apart. So far I'm finding it easier having 2 kids than I did having one in the early days