Third baby.

What made you decide to just go for it?
How was the change from two to three?

I definitely want a third, but I don’t feel ready. BUT, saying that I don’t think anyone ever feels ready do they, there’s never going to be a perfect time.

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My eldest was 8 when I had her sister (different dads)
Knew as soon as I had her I wanted a 3rd and close together. Wanted my toddler to have a sibling close in age to grow up with and I loved being pregnant.
Took us over a year to get pregnant and hes now 6 weeks old 🥰🥰 have to say the first month has been sooooo hard and struggled breastfeeding so mentally and lack of sleep hit hit me after a few weeks. Now found our rhythm a bit more and he's sleeping longer Im loving it and the girls are smitten with him too 🥰🥰 hes our last I know we are done now 🥰

Our 3rd wasn't planned (she's actually the 6th sibling but my 3rd)
I don't think you'll ever be "ready" because you know what's coming 😂 We didn't necessarily want another child but we had her and she's wonderful. You're a different Mum with the 3rd, you've done it all before and even though all babies are different you have a confidence you didn't have with the others. Mine is 4 now and she rules the roost 😂 she can wind up in a way none of the other kids can but I wouldn't change her 🥰

I’ve always wanted 3, I already had 2 girls, an 8 & 5 year old. We’d been trying for 2 years and finally fell pregnant after I was told I had PCOS. We had another little girl who is now nearly 6 weeks old.

Tbh, she’s fitted right in. Shes so easy and the girls love her; they help out all the time.. don’t get me wrong, morning school runs are chaotic but we love it!

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Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.

Help pls

I'm 7 weeks pp. Not had sex or even done anything but my tests have come back positive. I wouldnt test but had symptoms of pregnancy so I tested. What does this mean? Google says it should have been negative at this stage unless its a new pregnancy or bits of placenta has been left behind. I had a c section so 🤷‍♀️

Is it normal to test positive still? (Wouldn't usually do one)

Not the best pic and clearer in person. Is this normal? I've not had any sex since having my LO but I've had strong cravings, sense of smell is strong and my hair still hasnt started to fall out. Im 7 weeks pp so 🤷‍♀️ I wouldnt normally bother testing but with those symptoms that I never really have its like whats going on. Cravings for something very specific too and can only get from KFC now 😩 so its annoying

Can baby mamas be friends?

My son has an older brother from his biodad. Biodad has never had contact with my son. One thing lead to another though and the other child's mother and I got in contact and are planning a meeting for the boys. Biodad has no idea any of this has happened. Biodad also hasnt had contact with the other child in about 2 years. Just thoughts, opinions, anyone been through something similar?
Edit-Thank you all! Have definitely been feeling somewhat weird about it because we never met before but now know it can be a good thing definitely helps. I can't wait for them to meet. My son has been asking for a brother and I can now happily tell him he has one. That just happens to be 13. Im sorry for yall that fight/have issues with the other baby mamas. Sadly some women rather be stuck on the men, when the kid is the one who really matters. They're the ones that end up getting hurt and missing out.