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Married /divorced /engaged moms

I need advice

My husband and I got married when he got me pregnant at 16 because his Mormon parents didn’t give us a choice. After having my first kid at 17 my pregnancy was horrible and I almost died. I told him I never wanted to have kids again and he said that was so selfish so two years later I had our other daughter. I love my girls so so much. Now I’m 22 and him and I both made some mistakes and we were in the middle of a divorce. when it started he wanted full custody because I wasn’t fit to be a mom and I told him hell no, 50/50 custody. Now he is begging me to make it work “ for the kids”. He’s dated other people and hasn’t found what he’s looking for and I just don’t want to be in a relationship. I got married when I was 16. I don’t want to be married to anybody I want to have freedom over myself. He says that our lives aren’t about us anymore and we have to choose what’s best for our girls. Am I the asshole because I’d rather get divorced and parent the kids separately than try and make everything work with him so the kids don’t have divorced parents ?