Married /divorced /engaged moms

My husband and I got married when he got me pregnant at 16 because his Mormon parents didn’t give us a choice. After having my first kid at 17 my pregnancy was horrible and I almost died. I told him I never wanted to have kids again and he said that was so selfish so two years later I had our other daughter. I love my girls so so much. Now I’m 22 and him and I both made some mistakes and we were in the middle of a divorce. when it started he wanted full custody because I wasn’t fit to be a mom and I told him hell no, 50/50 custody. Now he is begging me to make it work “ for the kids”. He’s dated other people and hasn’t found what he’s looking for and I just don’t want to be in a relationship. I got married when I was 16. I don’t want to be married to anybody I want to have freedom over myself. He says that our lives aren’t about us anymore and we have to choose what’s best for our girls. Am I the asshole because I’d rather get divorced and parent the kids separately than try and make everything work with him so the kids don’t have divorced parents ?

Does anyone have a husband that doesn’t have a clue or acts like he doesn’t so he doesn’t have to do anything? I know I can be overprotective of my child but he is my child and I try my hardest to prevent anything bad from happening. I understand that accidents happen but that is what I try to explain to my husband. Our 10 month old is starting to stand every now and then, but he does not have great balance yet. Even if he did I feel like he still needs to be watched to make sure he doesn’t fall. I always walk in a lot of times and my husband has our son in a compromising situation. Either playing with or in an area he shouldn’t be or sitting 2-5 feet away on his phone. His excuse tonight was that I’m in the room so he doesn’t have to watch him but yet he is the one that put him on the floor to climb the outside of his walker. He did slip and almost busted his face on the walker. If I hadn’t caught him, he would have gotten hurt. My husband doesn’t think it’s a big deal. I said it would have been if I hadn’t been here because you’re not even watching him. To me, I don’t think I should have to explain this to a grown man but I do and tried to explain it calmly but I get to a breaking point to where he doesn’t listen. Then he calls me psycho for explaining that you have to be cautious with your child. At that point I’m yelling. I don’t want to yell but it’s frustrating when it seems like I am the only one who cares about our child. He has gotten better at interacting with him but what is the point if he puts him in situations to get hurt and doesn’t act fast to rescue him? Am I crazy for being this protective when my son is at a fragile stage? I’m so scared that something will poke his soft spot or break his neck already and now I feel like I can’t even trust my husband to be alone with him. Can anyone sympathize or have a similar situation?

I'm going through a divorce. My stbx is dating someone but keeps lying about it. I'm angry and want to be a little petty. I know I'm not ready to date but I kinda want to fake date someone to give him a taste of his medicine so to speak

Me and my husband just had a heated discussion just wanting other’s thoughts

So my current partner/fiancé i think has a porn addition and some infidelity. I’m 8 months pregnant and our wedding is in 2 weeks and last night he was on instagram looking at women… Made me feel away. I’m far from insecure but it just pissed me off. We currently aren’t intone because “he doesn’t want me to go into labor” idk …..