Can married women go to the bar

Me and my husband just had a heated discussion just wanting other’s thoughts

in our community

Feeling hurt but i know it’s for the best

My bf (21) & I (20) finally “split” . It’s
Always been toxic. Typing this out is giving me some clarity lol . Alright so, bf has been wanting to move back to his home state ( he moved in with me and my parent after birth ) he didn’t like being there and always complained but stayed. I helped get him a job with my parent but he quickly lost the job due to sleeping in. I knew he was lazy atp but I acted naively. My parent only asked that he keep a job but I guess that was too much for him to do here . Baby has state insurance as of now and will be changed soon but I handle all of it. Fast forward to today, he leaves tmr and he wanted to drink tonight . While drinking he downs 4 little cans of margaritas and begins talking to me. We talk about the move and baby but then it moved on to what he’ll be doing out there . He says if I don’t come with him then he sees no point in a relationship, he’s going to fu..k 34 btcs or wtv . The leaf that he was rolling magically fell with the wind after that comment . He instantly got mad and threw a punch , idk why but at first I just let him go for it but then I started hitting back . Fast forward again lol he leaves house running down the street. I run a little after him and then walk back home . 15 min go buy the police is there and they want his things . I gather them and let my parent take over ( since it was parents house ) . Haven’t heard anything from him since,I really just want to go to school to be able to support our child.I feel like bringing our child into his family’s home will be so much more drama filled. Now sure what to think abt rn or do but ig it’s just us now?

POV: your brother asks if there are any updates in the family group chat at 40+4 and how you’re doing

I reply saying no updates and I’m pretty fed up. He asks why I think that might be, is it all the waiting around 🫠 second brother then says “oh I felt that way yesterday. Try having a bath with some candles”. I know they mean well, but it makes me so sad that society completely lacks any understanding of what pregnant women are going through. I sent them an Instagram post which I said should explain why I’m feeling this way, completely depleted. Not to mention I have a toddler! Mums just chimed in I should go for a walk and take a bath to get things going. I literally bath every day it’s my happy place but God these conversations are beyond irritating!

Feeling isolated?

Currently 18 weeks pregnant. Does anyone else feel isolated/lonely?

I don't have any other friends that are currently or recently pregnant, I can no longer go to my martial arts classes I went to twice a week. I feel like absolutely everything that I enjoyed has kind of been stripped. My friends are all at that point where they have started going out on nights out again after kids or don't have them so don't want to spend a Saturday night with a pregnant woman.

My other half is around but sometimes will go to the pub to watch football etc (which he's free to do)

I feel so blessed to be pregnant, just to be clear. I just want to know if this is common..

I haven't joined any classes for mums to be yet, I'm waiting til I'm a little further on.

I wish I had a pregnant buddy

I wish I had a stay at home mom or pregnant friend to sit home and watch shows with and eat snacks

Women of God

Trying to find my sisters in Christ friends. I’m not gonna judge ya if you’re in the same boat as me and you’re not going to church because you can’t find a church that isn’t judgmental and full of cliques. As long as you have a relationship with God let’s be friends please

Who’s the ‘bad influence’ in your relationship?

I’m talking about light hearted things like getting a takeaway when you know you shouldn’t or booking a holiday when you shouldn’t but still do.