Who’s the ‘bad influence’ in your relationship?

Both of us. Problem is we never think “we shouldn’t”. Both always think we deserve it all so we do it all 😂

Being honest neither. We get takeout maybe once a month and go on vacation maybe once a year or twice if there is a special meetup our gaming friends are doing. But even with the vacations, it's always to a seaside not far away or a place that's only a short train ride away. The farthest we have travelled on a train as a family is 2 hours, the only time we travelled further was when I came to the UK and we had to get from London to Yorkshire, so that was a 6 hour coach ride but didn't have children at the time.

Both of us but for different things tbh.
It’s always me for vacations/holidays though. I always need something to look forward to. I literally book the next one within a few weeks of coming home from the last one 😅