Feeling hurt but i know it’s for the best

My bf (21) & I (20) finally “split” . It’s
Always been toxic. Typing this out is giving me some clarity lol . Alright so, bf has been wanting to move back to his home state ( he moved in with me and my parent after birth ) he didn’t like being there and always complained but stayed. I helped get him a job with my parent but he quickly lost the job due to sleeping in. I knew he was lazy atp but I acted naively. My parent only asked that he keep a job but I guess that was too much for him to do here . Baby has state insurance as of now and will be changed soon but I handle all of it. Fast forward to today, he leaves tmr and he wanted to drink tonight . While drinking he downs 4 little cans of margaritas and begins talking to me. We talk about the move and baby but then it moved on to what he’ll be doing out there . He says if I don’t come with him then he sees no point in a relationship, he’s going to fu..k 34 btcs or wtv . The leaf that he was rolling magically fell with the wind after that comment . He instantly got mad and threw a punch , idk why but at first I just let him go for it but then I started hitting back . Fast forward again lol he leaves house running down the street. I run a little after him and then walk back home . 15 min go buy the police is there and they want his things . I gather them and let my parent take over ( since it was parents house ) . Haven’t heard anything from him since,I really just want to go to school to be able to support our child.I feel like bringing our child into his family’s home will be so much more drama filled. Now sure what to think abt rn or do but ig it’s just us now?

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Don’t go back!! He’s very toxic and immature!! I’ve been there. You’ll thank me later

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Definitely don’t follow him stay with your family that supports you. Just keep doing what you’re doing for you and baby. Hopefully he gets his shit together when he’s gone but don’t change yall life for someone who doesn’t want to be around and threatens other women on you. I hope you find peace 🥺🫶🏽

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You got to let him go
He is a pathetic loser and you deserve way better. He is a singer to you and your child. Stay away from him.

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