Movements

How are people with no obvious ‘pattern’ monitoring baby movements?

My babies movements vary so much day to day, there is no pattern I can see whatsoever.

For example, over the weekend i felt him a few times during the day but nothing crazy, Monday & Tuesday he was wild in there and I felt movement on and off all day, today back to a few times.

When it varies this much I have no idea how I’m supposed to work out what is ‘normal’ and when to be worried!!!

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I am exactly the same ! I find myself in hospital at least once a week 🙄

I’ve been in twice now as well. I had no pattern with my first little girl either I was really hoping it would be different this time!!!

I think the term pattern is a bit confusing! I spoke to the midwife and said I feel baby everyday and am very aware if I haven’t felt him for any period of time although he is pretty good most of the time. She advised that if I get to the end of the day or anytime in the day and feel I haven’t felt movements I would expect to get checked.

I had a very good pattern with my first... this one is throwing me completely. Baby moves according to her own schedule, or not. I've been in to hospital twice feeling worried about a lack of pattern and the midwife just said it could be that her pattern is no pattern. Im trying to just chill, and, if I feel even a small movement in a day I'm settled that she's there... I also have a front facing placenta this time which i think can affect how much we feel the movements. Hope your pregnancy goes super smoothly.

Mine is the same. In not tracking a pattern but just keeping track of when is the last time I felt her. If it's been a few hours I try to get her moving by eating walking or lying down. I only start worrying if after that I have not felt anything in a while.

Thanks everyone! Really helpful and good to know it’s not just me!

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