Minimal-effort dad requesting pictures
My son’s father is asking for me to send him pics/videos of our son. Keep in mind he makes minimal effort to come see him or to even FaceTime him. I just feel like he would be able to have his own pictures/videos if he stepped up to see him more. Also, I have concerns that he’ll use the pics/vids to make it seem like he’s around our son more than he really is or to make it seem like me & him are on good terms but we are not. Thoughts? Does this make me look bitter or difficult?
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Sen pics with you and your son or videos with your voice clearly in it? So he can’t make it seem like it was him? If that’s your only reasoning you’re not bitter or being difficult you’re protecting your credibility imo. But you should try to find a way to give him what he wants without giving him a knife to use against you later if that makes sense
I agree with Autumn, I’d send pictures where it’s you and your son, if he wants to complain then he should make more effort and take his own 🤷♀️ it’s hard not to feel a bit bitter when they’re capable of making more effort and don’t, cos I definitely feel this way sometimes… they’re out there acting like father of the year, living their life without any concern for their own child, genuinely baffles me!
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