So so sad
I got unexpectedly pregnant with someone I thought I loved but during pregnancy and now 6 months pp I don’t feel that anymore, as his smoking, swearing and other things became too real. I love my baby but I feel miserable every day living with the dad and feel like I’ve ruined my life, which was so good before, and wish he wasn’t baby’s dad 😭😭 he doesn’t know I feel this way and he’s not a bad person I just think we’re not compatible. I have never felt so low in my whole life I don’t know what to do 😞😞😞
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Go to couples therapy and be honest with him. I say couples therapy not because I think it would make you more compatible (with how intensely you arent attracted to him, I doubt anything would help), but to help with future coparenting. But you should be honest with him - no one deserves that. I dont say that to bash you or imply you did it intentionally, but he deserves to know the truth in a calm manner and be allowed to process that information fully so you can both be kind to eachother as the other parent to your baby who you both love so much. You can build your coparenting journey on a healthy foundation and move forward in an amazing way for your child if you address it and work on what to do next together.
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