Would you reach out or leave it alone?? It’s about a man yal lol
Okay so I met a guy at the end of January we went on one date prior to the date our conversations were really nice but of course I get to the date and am crazy nervous but we ended up still having goo chemistry even though I was pretty awkward so we’ve still been talking about the same amount , we had been talking around 2 weeks at valentines but he didn’t tell me happy valentines bc he said he only celebrates basically if he is in love or really cares about the person so literally we didn’t even talk that day if I recall , the my bday was at the end of feb and he forgot it but reached out to me for casual convo that day so once I told him he forgot he apologized and then I ended up just stopping communication with him for about 5 days and he reached out and said he would make it up to me so he said he got me a gift and would take me somewhere nice so I ordered an outfit from fashion nova heels a cute set and literally stress myself the whole day getting together and then he told me his sitter fell through after I was dressed .. I cried and didn’t even know I was going to cry yes I like him but I think it was more so just a let down it was so exciting to like somebody and then to have the mini let downs keep happening and then I was just all dressed up no where to go … so now I haven’t responded to him he texted me Monday evening and I just haven’t responded I feel like these are signs but maybe they’re not and I’m overthinking? Is he terrible and I’m just lonely lol I’ve stopped responding to him bc he didn’t immediately reschedule a new date and this one was supposed to be a make up date and I just feel that’s insane lol advice/ Inputs !
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And what should I say if I do reach out lol
Im torn. For me personally valentine's day isn't a big deal. If he really isn't into celebrating it with someone he just started dating then I couldn't fault him for that. Being hurt about your bday. Totally understandable. It hurts when someone you like doesn't say something. But some people are really bad about special days. But if you meant enough to him he would have rembered. The last date. I again TOTALLY get crying after you got fully dolled up and for him to cancel. I have had that happen and it sucks majorly. BUT if his babysitter did cancel what was he supposed to do? Personally I would be guarded with him but see if he can redeem himself. But only give him 1 more chance. It's hard you have to do what you feel is right. If your gut is saying to leave him alone do it. Never second guess your gut feeling. If its meant to happen it will happen. You deserve someone that will be there for you and give you the attention you want/deserve. If he isn't doing it then move on.
Yeah idk it's rough. I totally get it though. Again you could try for 1 last chance and see how it goes. You could be honest and tell him you were disappointed the date got canceled. That you totally understand why, but it doesn't change how it disappointed you. Idk I'm not sure what a good response would be.
If he can't handle your honesty then he's not worth your time.
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