When are you letting grandparents kiss baby?

My little boy is nearly 20 weeks, and I hate the thought of anyone other than myself or my partner kissing my baby.
He’s had all his vaccinations but I’m still hesitant, I don’t mind the thought of my mum kissing him but hate the thought of my partners family doing it, but I don’t know if that’s just coming from the fact we don’t really get on.
If you are, are you just letting them kiss on the head or face?
I’m probably being a little selfish but I’m petrified of the thought of someone having a cold sore or god forbid anything else, just want to keep him safe.
Thanks in advance!

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