Has anyone actually agreed with bm before ?
Sd is 13. Apparently lied about having a bf . In general I’m being told that she and her mom aren’t getting along . Husband and bm don’t get along and anytime he’s tried to discipline her he’s the asshole , now that sd is talking about to her mom now she’s starting to send her over because she doesn’t wanna deal with is . Well recently it sounds like sd was having inappropriate convos with her bf and sd is now considering moving in with us . I told him to put their differences aside and that he should ask what they’re fighting about. Or what’s going on. I think my husband is just more excited at the thought of his daughter moving in with us which I’m not against but I don’t think it’s right that he just hops in with no background of what’s going on In his daughters life
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He Should Definitely Ask Her What's It About. Although, If He Isn't Comfortable Or Interested (He Knows How The Conversation Will Go) It May Be Just A Better Idea To Just Talk To The Daughter. After Having A Talk With BM And She Agrees With The Move, Before Actually Telling SD, Y'all Can Sit Her Down And Have A Conversation Of What Will/Will Not Happen In Y'all's Household. She's At That Age Where She May Think She Will Get More Freedom Than What She Will Actually Get. Being A Stepmom Is Hard Sometimes. In This Moment You Should Voice Your Concern, But Let Him Handle It In The End If You're Okay With Either Option.
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