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Hi, just wanted some opinions on this situation. Me and my partner both have a boundary on social media where I don’t add men and he doesn’t add women. A week into our relationship he added another woman, I found out, he apologised and reassured me it would never happen again. Yesterday I found out that he’s got a fake anonymous account where he’s been adding woman on there instead. He has access to my social media, I don’t have access to his. I am yet to question him about it, but I feel like he’s broken the trust. Not sure what to do, I know it’s a small issue, but this is now the second time and he’s just found a sneakier way to do it. We’ve only been together for 2 months so I’m not sure if it’s even worth giving him another chance.
Thanks in advance for any advice or opinions 🫶
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Nope no reason to give him another chance if it’s something you BOTH agreed on even if he didn’t want to agree
He’s showing you who he is! Believe him. Love that you caught this early into the relationship
What a slimey man. I would be thinking what else is he capable of doing behind your back
Glad this happened very early on. I would say he is not for you, don’t ignore the clear signs that the universe is giving you!
Is this a small issue? To me small issue is leaving dirty clothes on the floor not cheating on you. And this is cheating. Hes hiding it. He's lying about it. He's crossing the rules/boundaries that he agreed to not once but multiple times.
Its not a small issue hun. This issue is really big and it needs to be addressed
you set a boundary, he agreed, and repeatedly crossed that boundary and disrespected you and the relationship. a small issue to some is a big issue to others. if it’s only been 2 months and he’s already unwilling to be a trustworthy and honest partner i’d say just end it, he’s clearly not ready to be in a committed relationship
'Secret account' and you're only 2 months in? Just think what you're going to be dealing with 2 years in.....end it now.
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