Intimacy?

Hey ladies! Real question.
When do we have time for adult activities? Like I have 0 energy by the time my husband is back from work. And then we dinner, baby night time routine, pump and it’s like 10 I’m just beat!! I have 0 sex drive. Like it was always low, I never really had huge need for it even before pregnancy. But now it’s like none existing. I absolutely love my husband and think he’s a snack. Like I’m okay without sex probably for the rest of my life but I know my husband misses me, and I know he knows exactly when the last time we had it, which was a month ago! And thats so embarrassing to even admit, cause I’m jealous of those people who have it like 3 times a week, like how!!!!!!!!! What am I missing

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Quickies during naptime have been our go to. We are both too tired by end of the day lol

Morning before everyone is awake. Shower time if you can. During naps. I may not be the best person for advice because my libido is higher than my partner's and I am always ready to go. 😂 That being said, if you are fine without sex and you just want to give him love more often, do oral. I'm not saying never have sex but you can definitely get away with longer spells without it with some oral in the mix.

My LB is almost 5 months old and we haven't had sex since we procreated so a long time. I'm constantly tired going to sleep when my baby is so there is no time for anything nor the energy.

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Well….im pregnant. I have a 4.5, 2.5, and 11 month old. My husband is scheduled for a vasectomy April 7th AND we used plan B after we had one slip up this month—guess that didn’t work.

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Cut to the chase. 😂

I’m a girl mom , sahm,small business owner. I’m married and when I’m not being a mom I’m a teacher. I homeschool my daughter. I find it hard to find genuine friends. Life happens so I understand we get busy but if you’re not interested please don’t waste my time. Lol Oh and I run on caffeine. 😊

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If you were having a relationship with a married man and fell pregnant, would you keep the child if he didn’t tell you until 13 weeks pregnant that he didn’t want to be part of the child’s life?

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Do you believe that seeking therapy, taking mental health medication, and expressing emotions through crying therapy is a privilege and luxury, as others lack the time to do so and resort to bottling up their feelings? Feel free to comment below ⬇️

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