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Hello I’m a 20 year old sahm with a 3 month old baby boy looking for a bestie or friend to talk to I’m very shy and introverted till I get comfortable

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Intimacy?

Hey ladies! Real question.
When do we have time for adult activities? Like I have 0 energy by the time my husband is back from work. And then we dinner, baby night time routine, pump and it’s like 10 I’m just beat!! I have 0 sex drive. Like it was always low, I never really had huge need for it even before pregnancy. But now it’s like none existing. I absolutely love my husband and think he’s a snack. Like I’m okay without sex probably for the rest of my life but I know my husband misses me, and I know he knows exactly when the last time we had it, which was a month ago! And thats so embarrassing to even admit, cause I’m jealous of those people who have it like 3 times a week, like how!!!!!!!!! What am I missing

Sex drive marriage and cheating

Posting for advice in some way, so husband and I have been together since 2020 and got married in 2023… He has cheated in the past, at least 6 different women, basically we have had issues with work schedules is how it started him on over nights me working days. That started the cheating, from there and me finding out resentment on my side started and then I just didn’t have any real interest in sex with my husband, boyfriend at the time… we tried working through things tried spicing stuff up with toys outfits the works, I don’t enjoy drinking unless we are in a social setting, so that didn’t help either… we still worked opposite schedules until about October of 2023 honestly, and I thought maybe it would get better… I got pregnant in march of 2024 and he had 2 different affairs I know of in 2024 while I was pregnant….and then in 2025 I believe he only flirted sent pix etc…. And then he’s slept with one woman this year…. I have a lot of issues now when it comes to wanting to engage sexually I’m ADHD and already have problems getting in the mood… he doesn’t understand that and basically says I am the reason he cheats and our marriage is like this because of me and my lack of sexual desire… at this point I’d rather read a romance book and be done… there’s more of course but that’s the long story short version 😅😅😅

High sex drive

So I just got approved to have sex again by my doctor and I told my bf and he wasn't excited. Like I have been horny for 2 weeks and I have been using my toy but it's not the same to me. This guy I'm really close to (we have been friends for 4 years) he just told me that he has feelings for me for 3 years but he doesn't want to date yet. But he wants to be friends with benefits. But the only issue is that me and my bf r also having relationship issues. But I also really like my friend. He likes to tease me but it is driving me insane. Like honestly I can tell him anything and he has told me he wants to fuck me but he doesn't know how I would feel about it.

Plz help me for what I should do

I don’t understand how people get on here asking for a best friend or friend but don’t have what it takes to be that themselves! Y’all can’t even communicate. The vibe is off fr and I am not desperate! Stop wasting people’s time!

I want a best friend who wants to FaceTime and talk like we have known each other for a long time, not no how are you every other hour, this is real life and we can get on with it or just don’t comment on my stuff if you are inconsistent and just going through a phase. I want a best friend and friends not people to text today then they are gone tomorrow!

Do you get involved (join/comment/post) in groups with a particular flag, if you’re not from that country?

So, for example, a group with a British flag at the end of the name - signifying it’s a British group with British mum’s and possibly British topics - even if you’re not British yourself. Hope this makes sense.

Looking for my ride or die!

I miss having a female bestie. It seems like it's been since middle school that I've had that sort of connection with another female. I'm desperate for a friend, someone to vent to or listen to, someone to just have to text with. I feel like I'm in that season of life where I'd really love to have someone to talk to that isn't my husband 😆